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How have you been caring for yourself lately?
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The Fat Lady Sings: Lindley sings Handel’s Te cum principium
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A culture of compensation
I recently talked about how people who are privileged in a particular area often expect people who are marginalized in that area to educate them, give them ideas and even fix their organizations for free. I’m also thinking about people like Ragen Chastain, who answer literally thousands of emails per month to provide free labor…
